Staying Connected

I have heard it said in recent years that people are now the most connected they have ever been (because of the internet and social media), and yet we are the most isolated we have ever been (again, because of the impact of technology).  Although we are in touch with way more people than ever before, these connections are often distant, shallow, and less than satisfying.  Over time, as we grow more accustomed to this style of making connections, it can influence even our dearest relationships with family and friends – and with God. 

Of course, God, in His wisdom, often makes good use of the systems our culture offers.  He can and is using the internet to reach millions and millions of people with the Good News of Jesus.  Sermons on YouTube are commonplace these days, and testimonies can be found all over Facebook and Instagram.  That’s great! 

But at the same time, God has not changed His ways of connecting personally and intimately with His people.  Study of His Word is still necessary to learn His heart and His ways.  Prayer is still a vital way to speak and listen to Him.  Worship is still important to acknowledge His greatness and center our lives upon His will.  Fellowship with other believers is still where we find everyday examples and encouragement for living out our faith. These practices are tried and true throughout the epochs of human history.

Therefore, we must be careful not to substitute the quick and easy – a two-minute online devotional or a friend’s Instagram story testimony – for the deeper work it takes to steward our personal relationship with God (and our other relationships, for that matter).  When we invest our time, energy, and attention toward God, our faith is nourished, grows, and matures.  This is a slow, but meaningful process.  It doesn’t happen overnight.  It’s not a quick fix.  But as we give ourselves to our relationship with God, and pay attention to making real connection, we will grow in our joy, peace, and security.  This is the fruit of what is called “a long obedience in the same direction.”

Recently I was rereading one of my journals from a few years ago.  I was amazed and encouraged to see how I had matured in some areas since then.  I wasn’t fully aware of it until I had the opportunity to look back.  Over time, through daily rhythms of prayer, weekly routines of worship, and regular meetings with other believers, I stayed connected with God. And slowly but surely, all the while He was shaping me.   

I am writing this blog in the middle of the biblical month of Iyar, which carries a theme of connection.  This is the month between the celebrations of Passover and Easter (our redemption) and Pentecost (the giving of the Holy Spirit).  Iyar lies in the middle of these two big events on God’s calendar, and it is known as a “connector” month. There are no big celebrations this month.  Its importance is the focus upon connection: connection with God’s Word, connection with God’s Spirit, and connection with God’s people. And I am reminded afresh how important it is to remain in Him (John 15) in any and every way that He makes available to us. 

Dear One, I encourage you to continue to draw near to God so that He can draw near to you (James 4:8).  Take some time to reflect upon how you are connecting with Him through your days.  Make it your practice to give time and space to your relationship, and I guarantee you will see positive results in your life. 

A Prayer: 

Dear Jesus, thank You for making the way for me to come to the Father.  Please help me stay connected through my days and throughout my years.  And may the fruit of our connection grow strong in my life – to Your Glory!

Amen.